6 Green Flags for Relationship Success and Empowerment
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6 Green Flags for Relationship Success and Empowerment
We often talk about what not to do in relationships and things to look out for.
We label those negative signs: Red Flags.
We spend time with the bitter conversations about what men and women do wrong.
We have entire movements in bashing, dehumanizing and beating up on the terrible people that most likely should stay single anyway.
That’s not what we do here. We want to empower you; help you understand that YOU can do this and do it WELL.
So, let’s focus on the positivity.
Your mate does exist, if you recognize them and can find them throughout the world.
But what are people to look for in someone that is actually suitable for you?
And someone just being in a relationship or married for a long-time does not mean they are in a happy, healthy marriage.
These Green Flags can help you recognize what to look out for and how to evaluate what you are doing as you build your social empire and legacy.
Shout out to the Icons on Twitter that pushed the conversation with their opinions.
We thank you for being a part of our Iconic Community, each green flag is presented by someone in our audience.
#1 Green Flag: Easy to Resolve Disagreements Icon Jeff Charles
Marriage isn’t a cake walk. It takes work and understanding that your spouse is their own autonomous human being. They won’t see things the way you do and that is okay.
Being able to resolve disagreements like healthy adults makes sense in today’s world is a plus because no two people think exactly the same.
But when you can respect your spouse’s ideas, opinions even when you disagree, that means you can think outside your own bubble. You can rely on them for ideas, and you can work together filling in any gaps that the other person has to a situation.
No one wants someone who they can’t talk to, can’t compromise with and that always has to be right no matter if they are right.
Marriage does not need to be a headache. It can be a blessing when the team is on one accord.
#2 Green Flag: You are comfortable with silence Icon Jennifer O’Connell
Sometimes saying nothing is better than saying something hurtful or inappropriate.
Sitting on the sidelines and letting them speak is not necessarily a bad thing. We don’t always have to fill the air with words or respond instantly to something said to us.
Being quiet is a superpower. It is a tool to help you win at arguments, decisions, choices and more. Not to dominate or control in a tyrannical way, but to parse your words so they are most effective.
Silence allows you time to observe the world around you. Observations let you see what others won’t tell you.
Observing something means that you are extracting some information from there. Silent people use this information to understand the behaviour of people, to protect you and to predict the future. The power of silence - 9 reason why silent people are successful? - HealthAndNaturelife
#3 Green Flag: When they’re a magnet for dogs and children and they love it Icon Tina
Dogs and Children have a good sense about people that are empathetic, compassionate and kind.
Watching how people maneuver around those that are the smallest or cannot do anything for us is eye opening into who they are.
Yes, bad people can have babies and dogs. But people who are kind to children and animals are more likely to use that kindness towards fellow humans and potential mates.
The natural affection we feel for animals can be compared to the affection we feel for our children. We impulsively care for them and desire to help them because they are unable to easily help themselves. Our perception of adult humans is that they can easily speak up for their rights or defend themselves from danger. People Who Love Animals More Than People: Psychology Of Empathy | BetterHelp
Caring for things that may seem like we don’t have to care about shows our capacity to love and care outside of themselves.
Don’t Give Up
Marriage is not easy, but it is doable.
Most times we don’t have the right resources, the right upbringings or just choose the wrong partners and that is why relationships fail.
My husband and I boiled down our relationship to a single ideology that has kept us together for 12 years through a lot of unforeseen circumstances that we have pushed through; we never gave up.
In my latest eBook, “Don’t Give Up: A guide to Help Navigate Modern Marriages and Win” I discuss keep important factors to help you when and build a social empire that lasts.
Many organizations, media outlets and political figure heads will talk all day about the need for wholesome families, intact homes and marriage.
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#4 Green Flag: Mutual Respect Icon Vilified Ostracized
You cannot love someone who you don’t respect. You can honor your vows if you do not respect the person, you made them to and for. We have addressed respect before on this app so I won’t hold you long on this, but it is very important because it can guide your actions and behavior.
If you respect your spouse, you move differently with your words and how you dress, etc. If you respect your children, you let them have a voice in the family.
You can see respect in how someone acts long before you get those butterflies and want to get together.
Self-respect for themselves is key or you could be battling their insecurities and issues. Respect for who others can show you if your future mate will honor you.
Respect for the law can see if you are going to marry a criminal or someone that accepts nonsense that the government might try to get over.
How a person shows respect to their own family, other genders, children and more tells you what kind of character they possess having nothing to do with you.
And would you align and tie yourself to someone that shows little to no respect for others? That is a recipe for disaster even if they seem to do if for you, that won’t be long standing.
#5 Green Flag: Allowing your spouse to rest when they are weary Icon Tatanka
We work hard. Sometimes we have to be the ones to take the ball from our spouse and roll it by ourselves as they rest and rejuvenate. We can’t have a long life with them if we let them burn themselves out and not rest.
Rest is a part of life and part of a healthy human system.
But if we don’t take a break like we talked about last month on mental health, our spouses can fall apart.
There should be nothing that they take on a lone, that is the point of building together.
If they feel the weight of work, school, bills, life whatever, be observant and if it is you, say something.
You should be a help not a hinderance in the building of your family.
#6 Green Flag: When You know they actually listened to what you are saying Icon Karen
People wanted to be heard.
Being heard makes them feel valued. Someone who listens is highly valued and shows the respect we mentioned in another number.
Active listening is a necessity for relationships to last in the long term. "When used in close relationships, active listening can foster an even deeper level of emotional intimacy," licensed marriage and family therapist Tiana Leeds, M.A., LMFT, recently told mbg. "Essentially, it provides the speaker with the space and attunement to be able to be vulnerable, which can enhance relationships both in times of peace as well as conflict." Green Flags: 16 Good Signs In A New Relationship Or Partner | mindbodygreen
People who listen can hear what you are saying, learn your tone and listen to your heart because they care. They understand that what you offer is something they need to be a part of and your ideas can help us win.
If you want only want you want, you should remain single.
But a good listener can then move in a way that shows they heard you and they weren’t just feeling beat or defeated, that they are the only one that matters.
Summary
There are positive things that you can look out for in your search for a mate and/or with your current spouse.
Building a solid foundation starts with the person you choose.
Your spouse is the only person you get to choose in your family.
Choose wisely.
And remember in all that you do, be Iconic.
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