Bonus Weekend Post: The 10 Truths about Men and Their Marriage Benefits
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I am sure you have seen the ruckus on social media and the podcast space as of recent where misogyny is disguised as male empowerment.
Don’t get me wrong, misandry lurks in this same space too.
Apparently, men and women think if they bash the opposite sex, then they will fall in love with them and in open arms with the newfound subjugation that is permeating both these spaces to its detriment.
Either people are posting their mere opinion, or they are pulling data out of their backside.
Either way, we at Iconic Media are going to set it straight.
Bonus Weekend Post: The 10 Truths about Men and Their Marriage Benefits
You cannot have a marriage coaching business without running across these bigger platforms who have much more influence and selling lies to their audience.
This new red pill community, manosphere space or just new podcaster content is plague with some problematic content and I will push back on it.
I must.
I guess people sleep better at night if they are lied to and their egos are stroked.
I am not here to do that.
What those individuals won’t tell their people is that their nonsense isn’t supported by data.
This lie that men do not need women is a lie from Satan.
In fact, God the Father saw Adam alone and it was considered not good.
His solution was a woman named Eve. And being God, He knew in His Wisdom what Eve was going to do and still gave her to Adam.
So, no. Men who want to live in a union need women.
Can people make it alone? Of course.
In fact, many do okay for themselves without marrying ever.
On contrary, however, that men don’t need women and we are just here to be here is ridiculous, a dangerous lie and it is sexism no matter the excuses for it.
But one of the most egregious lies is that men have no marital benefits.
That is just a flat out lie.
I mean if you don’t want to get married, don’t. Don’t put that on someone else’s adult child if you really are disinterest in marriage.
But there are many benefits for men to get married and I will list them all, so we aren’t here for long.
Men live Longer when married.
Men have better finances.
Their children do better in a 2-parent household
Men have better mental health.
Men recover faster from surgery.
Men are happier with less drug and alcohol use.
Men are do better in marriage than living alone.
Men have higher levels of marital satisfaction than women.
Men have a stronger support network.
Men get to demonstrate leadership qualities.
This idea that men do not need women or that men are hurt by getting married are not backed up by research and is more likely conjecture from those who have failed relationships, unsatisfaction with court battles and have not preplanned divorce possibilities.
Interesting fact though, men who go through those horrible past problems still benefit from remarrying and second/subsequent marriages if they give it another go.
(Learn the secrets of a second marriage here Secrets of a Successful Second Marriage | Divorce For Men (goldbergjones-sandiego.com) )
This idea that men don’t need women but still obsessively opine about what women, who they don’t need, ought to do seems very contradictory.
What I am not saying here is that modern relationship narratives are perfect.
What I am not saying is that women are perfect.
What I am not saying is that men are bad.
What I am saying is that when done correctly with the right person for you, men can and do benefit from an Iconic marriage.
There are things both groups can do to improve their likely hood of a marriage that win and we have resources available to you when it is ready.
Don’t Give Up
Marriage is not easy, but it is doable.
Most times we don’t have the right resources, the right upbringings or just choose the wrong partners and that is why relationships fail.
My husband and I boiled down our relationship to a single ideology that has kept us together for 12 years through a lot of unforeseen circumstances that we have pushed through; we never gave up.
In my latest eBook “Don’t Give Up: A guide to Help Navigate Modern Marriages and Win” I discuss keep important factors to help you when and build a social empire that lasts.
Many organizations, media outlets and political figure heads will talk all day about the need for wholesome families, intact homes and marriage.
Yet, where do people go for realistic help in navigating the craziness that dominates our media, our content and our society?
Iconic Media is here.
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Summary
Men do benefit from marriage and from having women in their lives.
Anyone who tells you differently has an ulterior agenda, and not a good one.
They would rather lie to you, try to dehumanize women and treat men like idiots.
I understand, dating is hard out here.
Fun fact: It is supposed to be. You are choosing the one family member you get to choose so you aren’t supposed to take it lightly.
Does modern culture have issues? Yes.
And we can talk about those problems in an uplifting and empowering way that doesn’t strip someone of their inherent humanity based on their gender.
They are not responsible for the people that hurt you.
Someone who will lie to you is not an ally you should want.
Only the truth can set you free.
if you want to learn more on how to get, keep and maintain a marriage that lasts, we have an Iconic eCourse below for you.
And remember in all that you do, do it in truth and be Iconic.
References for further Reading
Is It True That Single Women and Married Men Do Best? | Psychology Today
Associations between relationship status and mental well-being in different life phases from young to middle adulthood - ScienceDirect
15 Amazing Benefits of Marriage for a Man
Benefits Of Marriage: Do Men Benefit More From Marriage Than Women? (themindsjournal.com)
The Benefits of Marriage.....for Men! - Rupert G. Hargrave - Google Livres
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