Building Self-Awareness: A Foundation for a Healthy Marriage Mindset with 5 Tips
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Building Self-Awareness: A Foundation for a Healthy Marriage Mindset with 5 Tips
Our mind is a powerful tool.
We can start our path to success by first building a mindset to win.
Our success is paramount on the self-awareness that we can actually think and act like winners.
What is self-awareness?
Self-awareness is the ability to tune in to your feelings, thoughts, and actions.
Being self-aware also means being able to recognize how other people see you.
People who are self-aware recognize their strengths and their challenges. Self-Awareness and Learning Differences (understood.org)
Being self-aware allows you to know where to start when you are contemplating marriage and doing for the long haul.
See, a successful marriage doesn’t come out of nowhere it is built.
And you start building piece by piece in your mind.
If you mind says you can or cannot do something, you are right either way.
And that is why last week we talked about fear because fears start in the mind.
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If we think that we are afraid, we are.
Our minds are our determining factor to success even before we take one step.
The power of the mind applies to both positive and negative outcomes. If your mind believes you are chronically sick or lacking capability to accomplish a goal, you automatically start your day with that expectation. Whatever is your primary thought pattern you will subconsciously spotlight the reasons why this thought is true. What happens next is you create a feedback loop, reinforcing your primary thoughts because of where you are placing your attention. That is why the practice of rewiring your thinking is key to your success, happiness and health. Accessing The Power Of Your Mind: Placebo Effect And Mindset (forbes.com)
By taking note to your own thought process and then planning ways around it to win, your self-awareness becomes the tools to cultivating a mind of a winner.
Here are 5 tips to cultivate a Winners mindset that you can apply to build your successful marriage today.
Get A Vision Plan: A Vision is what you want to accomplish. It is something to work towards. Out of the Vision comes your mission and goals which you can break down into smaller steps that make it easier. Usually, the husband has the Vision, and the wife becomes the helper of that Vision and together they work towards it. Being a team is essence of marriage as two have become one.
Develop Your Tenacity: Understanding that everything will not go your way works. It helps you understand that lows will come with the highs, and you are ready for them. You know you and your spouse are imperfect, but you are ready for lives challenges as they come.
Be disciplined- You mind is also a muscle that can be trained. If you want to be successful you have to do something consistently. In marriage, that might mean waking up at the same time every day to kiss your spouse before they leave for work or making the kids lunches the night before school, so you aren’t rushing. To put yourself in the mindset for marriage do the chores in your household like you would once you get the ring. Mow the lawn, take care of the bills, handle your debts before you put them onto someone else. Discipline makes marriage more important in your mind rather than just a hobby or something to do.
Get Help: It is okay to admit you don’t know something. Go get books, training or hire a coach, therapist or other professional to guide you through. Marriage is something that has happend since Adam and Eve so there are people that know what to do. Reaching out when you don’t know proves you are serious about making your relationship work.
Get to Work: We we are unsure of ourselves we drag our feet. Sometimes the best experience is to real-world or on the job training. I don’t mean dive head first into marriage but I mean to make a plan beforehand. Decide what type of spouse you want and go on dates to see what is out there. Decide where you want to live, if you will have a career, gender roles or go get coaching. Whatever helps you on your path to a successful marriage go get started yesterday.
Summary
Winners have the mindset they are winners before they do anything.
It isn’t just talent that makes you successful but how your mind is transformed in the process.
Being self-aware of what it takes for marriage success it the beginning blueprint for your social empire and the legacy you are creating.
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The mindset of a successful marriage is just the beginning.
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