Building Strong Kingdom Marriages: Embracing the Law of Priority
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Building Strong Kingdom Marriages: Embracing the Law of Priority
What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
Do you check your phone?
Do you stretch and kiss your spouse?
Most of us have a daily routine where we are just doing the best we can. But, as Kingdom Marriage couples, we are required to prioritize God first. This means that He should be above all else, include our spouses and our children.
After my dad died, my family has been devoting more of our time to doing just that. Instead of scrolling Twitter when I wake up, I check the Bible app for the day’s scripture. In fact, I say a prayer to my husband as he leaves for work because he wakes before I do.
We put God first by doing daily scriptures in our homeschooling class, we discuss God at night during our nightly study and when we can we spread the gospel, like I do here on Iconic.
God is the head of our lives, and He must be the center of our marriages so that He can help us in times of needs, give us strengthen and even experience of joys, too.
Reflecting on the loss of my dad and my brother has put things in perspective for our household. Don’t wait until that happens for you. Put God first today.
The Law of Priority for your Marriage.
In today's fast-paced world, the sanctity of marriage is often challenged by shifting priorities, distractions, and worldly pursuits. Yet, in Kingdom Marriages, a divine principle stands as the cornerstone for building lasting love and purpose: the Law of Priority. Rooted in the biblical foundation of Exodus 20:3, which commands,
“You shall have no other gods before me,”
this principle reminds us of the essential order that ensures God's blessings flow abundantly in our union.
God First: The Ultimate Anchor
The Law of Priority begins with a sacred truth: God must always come first. Kingdom Marriages thrive when God is placed at the center, providing guidance, wisdom, and unwavering support. This divine hierarchy doesn't diminish the role of your spouse; rather, it elevates every aspect of your marriage. By prioritizing God, couples invite His presence into their relationship, creating a foundation built on love, faith, and spiritual alignment.
Spouse Second: A Reflection of Divine Love
Right after God comes your spouse—a partner handpicked by Him to share your life's journey. The Bible speaks to the importance of this bond, likening marriage to Christ's relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:25-27). Honoring your spouse as your next priority means fostering a connection rooted in selflessness, communication, and mutual respect. This isn’t just about fulfilling earthly desires but reflecting the pure, sacrificial love that God demonstrates toward His children.
Aligning Other Priorities
When the Law of Priority is applied, all other aspects of life—work, hobbies, social obligations—fall naturally into place. Misaligned priorities often lead to stress, discontentment, and struggles in marriage. Yet, when the focus remains on God and your spouse, life gains clarity and balance. Financial stability, parenting, and professional growth all flourish when they are approached with God's wisdom and the unity of a loving marriage.
Practical Ways to Live Out the Law of Priority
Daily Devotion: Begin and end each day with prayer and scripture. Invite God into your marriage through intentional spiritual practices.
Quality Time: Dedicate moments to connect with your spouse, free from distractions. Honor their presence as God intended.
Service Together: Engage in ministry or charitable acts as a couple. Serving others strengthens your bond while glorifying God.
Check Your Priorities: Regularly assess whether God and your spouse remain central in your life. Adjust as necessary to realign with His plan.
Conclusion
In Kingdom Marriages, the Law of Priority is not merely a guideline—it’s a divine mandate that transforms relationships into reflections of God's love and purpose. When we place God first, our marriages become a testament to His glory, and when we prioritize our spouse, we mirror the beautiful covenant He established with humanity. By living out this law, couples experience a harmony that radiates beyond their union, touching every aspect of their lives and inspiring those around them.
Embrace the Law of Priority in your Kingdom Marriage and watch how God works miracles through your steadfast obedience and love.
BREAKING FEAR
In 2022, I wrote my first book about my miscarriage and the fear I experienced in Breaking Fear. In 2024, I re-released the book again with an epilogue about my daughter’s birth. I had a lot to say about fear.
But fear would rear its ugly head again in my life.
February 6, 2025 and on February 24, both my father and my brother passed away. Their deaths have forever impacted me. Through this grief, I learned God can use my personal story, as the story has already told.
I have many fears: of planes, of drowning, of leaving my kids in this chaotic world. Yet, God calls me not to worry. This is how I discovered His Kingdom message.
In Matthew 6:25, Jesus speaks to his disciples, who are worried about their basic needs. He tells them not to worry and instructs them to seek the Kingdom of God first and live righteously.
That my message to you today. I also encourage you to read my books to find strengthen for your trying days.
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How does the law of priority protect in practical terms
The Law of Priority serves as a safeguard in practical terms by providing structure and clarity in life’s complexities. Here’s how it protects:
1. Strengthens Marital Unity
By keeping God first and your spouse second, the Law of Priority creates a clear boundary around your marriage. This helps couples avoid distractions and external interferences, such as work pressures or extended family dynamics, that can disrupt their connection. It ensures both partners feel valued and prioritized, reducing misunderstandings and fostering trust.
2. Guards Against Idolatry
When other pursuits—like career, finances, or even personal hobbies—threaten to take precedence, the Law of Priority acts as a reminder to realign. Putting God first prevents anything or anyone from becoming an “idol” in your life, which could lead to imbalance, stress, or discontentment.
3. Provides a Decision-Making Framework
In practical terms, the Law of Priority acts as a guide when life gets complicated. For instance:
When work conflicts with family time, you can decide based on the principles of prioritizing God and your spouse.
When financial strains arise, you turn to God’s Word for guidance rather than impulsive decisions, and you work together with your spouse to address challenges.
4. Balances Responsibilities
By focusing on the right priorities, you avoid overextending yourself in areas that don’t align with God’s purpose. This balance reduces burnout and ensures your emotional and spiritual energy is invested in things that truly matter—your relationship with God, your marriage, and your mission in life.
5. Builds Spiritual Resilience
Life’s trials can be overwhelming, but the Law of Priority equips you to navigate them with faith. By placing God first, you receive the peace and wisdom necessary to face adversity. When your marriage is second in line, you have a partner to lean on, creating a united front against external challenges.
Practical Example
Imagine a couple facing a career opportunity that requires relocation. By applying the Law of Priority:
They pray together, seeking God’s guidance before making any decisions.
They prioritize their marriage, ensuring the move doesn’t harm their relationship.
They align their decision with God’s purpose for their lives, rather than pursuing worldly aspirations alone.
By following the Law of Priority, couples protect their marriage from unnecessary strain and ensure their lives remain in alignment with God’s will. Let me know if you'd like me to elaborate further!
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