Christmas Series | Subscriber Mailbag: November Edition

Answering Iconic Marriages Members Personal Questions for Paid Members Only

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Subscriber Mailbag: November Edition

This Christmas is extra difficult for me because I lost family that won’t be here. But not just that, I constantly see many arguments online about marriage and family with no solution. People love to complain, vent nonsense topics, and just live for the drama.

I saw one video of a man talking about how he thought the grass was greener and left his wife. Then, he wanted to come back to her after he was at his lowest and realized he wanted the wife to clean up his life. It was a disgusting display of how he viewed both women, centered himself and his issues, and never once talked about how either woman felt.

Another thing I notice is a trend of women just bashing men based on their limited experience. Of course that’s going to scare people if all they here is “man bad” but those of us who either know good men, know mail coaches, and love on good men don’t get our information out, that’s all people see.

And I want to say that someone doesn’t need to have cheated or been through a divorce to understand marriage. Marriage isn’t just a dugeon in game where you have to pass a series of trials to get to a final boss to finally get it right. Struggle love isn’t the goal.

We are building happy and healthy marriages so we took your questions and answered some in our “Subscriber Mail Bag Series.” These are personal so this is for paid subscribers only.