Day 6: The Day I Let the Platform Die to Save My Peace
40 Days of Mrs. Pinky Thoughts: Faith, Fire & Forward | Week 1: Voice and Vulnerability Psalms 37: 7
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I’ve never celebrated my birthday like this. This is the first time it isn’t tangled in grief. My dad’s birthday was July 13. His anniversary with my mom was July 26. He’s gone now—and this July, I rise with purpose.
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Now Let’s get back into today’s lesson:
Day 6: The Day I Let the Platform Die of 40-Days of Mrs. Pinky Thoughts
Theme: Obedience Isn’t Just Loud—Sometimes It’s Letting Go Verse: “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways…” —Psalm 37:7 (NIV)
👥 Public Version: When Peace Costs Popularity
In 2022, I walked away from what many thought was “my thing.” Politics. Commentary. Trends. Tweets that popped off. Posts that got traction.
I had followers. I had reach. I even had influence. But I didn't have peace.
My soul was tired. My mind was noisy. And I was slowly forgetting what real love looked like beneath all the performative posts and ideological soundbites.
So, I did what made no earthly sense: > I let the platform die.
Not because I failed. But because I remembered my purpose. The marriage space needed truth—not theatrics. It needed restoration—not retweets. And I couldn’t give that if I kept performing where God had already pulled me out.
What the world sees as quitting, God calls refining.
🔒 Premium Version: From Culture Wars to Covenant
When I walked away from the political grind, I didn’t just lose momentum—I found mission.
God whispered: “I didn’t call you to clapback. I called you to covenant.” And that revelation unlocked what became Iconic Marriages—a platform not for debates, but divine rebuilding.
Because let’s be honest: Too much marriage content is poisoned by gender wars, financial fights, and "high-value" talking points that leave people confused, broken, and spiritually bankrupt.
I knew what was needed:
More biblical clarity, less content bait
More Kingdom intimacy, less shallow attraction advice
More healing, less hustle
So I created content rooted in truth: Confessionals like Mrs. Pinky Thoughts Courses, cookbooks, and covenant coaching Tools to restore what culture kept tearing down
> “Let us throw off everything that hinders… and run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” —Hebrews 12:1 (NIV)
I threw it off, y’all. Clout. Commentary. Comparison. Because peace isn’t passive—it’s protected.
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