Honoring My Brother This Memorial Day & The Legacy of Kingdom Mothers
Memorial Day: Remembering My Brother's Service and Sacrifice
Honoring My Brother This Memorial Day & The Legacy of Kingdom Mothers
Memorial Day: Remembering My Brother’s Service & Sacrifice
This Memorial Day, I pause to reflect on my brother’s life—a man who gave his service, his strength, and his heart to his country. Though he was medically retired due to Wegener’s disease, his dedication and sacrifice were no less honorable. His journey reminds me that service doesn’t end when the uniform comes off; it lives in the stories, the lessons, and the lives touched by those who serve.
At our home back in 2005, my brother was trying to join the Army. The recruiter was in the home but for some reason his plans failed. I was sitting there with nothing to do, and dad threw me under the bus. The recruiter asked me what I was doing, and I told him that if he could get me up and working out, I’d join the Army.
Thanks to my brother’s work bringing a recruiter in my house, working out with me all the days up to I shipped out, and coming with family to my graduation, I became a U.S. soldier. Even though he got me in trouble with a pocket full of quarters during family time at my boot camp graduation, it motivated him to become a marine.
How ever complex our relationship, my little brother had a tremendous impact on my life, and I am forever grateful.
Grief has a way of reshaping our understanding of legacy. It urges us to look deeper, to find meaning beyond the sorrow. While Memorial Day is about remembering those we’ve lost, it’s also about honoring their impact, carrying forward their courage, and living in a way that reflects their strength.
Today, I honor my brother—not just for his time in the military, but for the imprint he left on our family and the faith that carried him through. His life was a testament to resilience, and it’s a legacy I hold close.
SGT Ronnie Michael Pulley exemplified what it meant to be a dad, a husband, a father, an uncle, a brother and a friend. It is with great honor; I am his sister and will carry his legacy forward as best I can. We didn’t always see everything the same and we had the normal sibling fights that only loved ones can, but I miss him. I salute him not only for his service to this country, but in his honor of the Pulley legacy.
Kingdom Mothers: Shaping Generations Beyond Their Own
Just as my brother’s life carries meaning beyond his years, mothers shape generations that stretch beyond their own. My mother is a prime example of this—a woman whose wisdom, faith, and sacrifices continue to influence not only her children but her grandchildren and future generations.
What lessons do Kingdom Mothers leave their children?
📖 Faith as a Foundation – Teaching children that God is their source (Proverbs 22:6). 💪 Strength Through Struggles – Showing that hardships don’t define us—how we rise does (James 1:2-3). ❤️ Unconditional Love & Grace – Modeling forgiveness and compassion, even in difficult seasons (Colossians 3:13). 🔥 Boldness in Purpose – Instilling confidence and courage to chase God-given dreams (2 Timothy 1:7).
A mother’s legacy isn’t measured just in how well she raised her kids, but in how far her influence reaches—to grandchildren, communities, and even strangers impacted by her kindness.
The Power of a Kingdom Legacy
A life of faith doesn’t fade—it multiplies. Whether in a brother who served, a mother who nurtured, or a family striving to walk in God’s purpose, legacy is built through daily choices, love, and trust in God’s plan.
As I reflect on my brother and my mother, I realize that true legacy isn’t about titles or achievements—it’s about love, faith, and the impact left behind.
This Memorial Day, let’s remember those who served, honor the mothers who shaped us, and commit to carrying forward a legacy of purpose and faith.
Do you have a loved one or friend you are honoring this holiday season? Let us know about them.
#StrongMomMay: Honoring Mothers & Giving Back
May is a month of warmth, growth, and celebration—and what better way to honor the incredible strength of mothers than with #StrongMomMay? This special initiative is more than just a hashtag; it’s a movement that recognizes the unwavering resilience, love, and dedication of moms everywhere.
Today only, we are raising $500 to support my brother’s widow. She is a mother to three now doing this on her own as my brother could no longer stay with her and their kids. We thank her for everything and want to help her as we celebrate my late brother today. And here’s the best part: there are rewards for those who contribute!
By donating or participating, you not only help mothers in meaningful ways but also have the chance to receive exclusive gifts and experiences. Whether it’s a heartfelt tribute, special recognition, or exciting giveaways, we’re ensuring that every supporter is appreciated.
Join us in celebrating motherhood, giving back, and spreading the message of strength. Let’s make #StrongMomMay a movement that uplifts and empowers, one contribution at a time!
Every donation makes a difference, but for those who contribute $25 or more, we want to gift you a special token of gratitude—our print book, Breaking Fear.
In 2010, I faced one of the darkest moments of my life. After years of infertility, we lost our child—a blessing we had prayed for. The grief was overwhelming, and I felt like I had no way forward. But through God’s strength, I broke fear and found hope again. Breaking Fear is the story of resilience, faith, and healing, and I want to share it with those who help us give back to my sister in law.
Join Us in Blessing a Strong Mom: Kumi Pulley
Let's honor her legacy of love and strength by coming together to support her in this next chapter.
🙏 Donate today and be part of this movement of Kingdom love. 📚 Receive a copy of Breaking Fear with any donation of $25 or more. 💙 Share this campaign and help us reach our goal of $1900 by May 31st. Iconic Marriages is a donations model organization and cannot do more without your investment.
Thank you for standing with us as we celebrate my mom and the power of Kingdom motherhood. Your kindness means the world to us.
Scriptures to bless you through your Grief
I have been struggling a bit losing family so close together. But I am often reminded by the faith in those that left us that God who is here for the broken hearted. He will comfort us as he takes our loved ones into his Kingdom and allows them to wait for us when it is our time. We at Iconic are sending prayers to any of you who are going through a tough time and also remember our fallen this Memorial Day, that the price of freedom is not free.
Grief is a heavy burden, but God’s Word offers comfort, hope, and healing. Here are some powerful scriptures to bring peace to those who are mourning:
God’s Nearness in Grief
📖 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18 📖 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” – Matthew 5:4
Hope Beyond Loss
📖 “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain.” – Revelation 21:4 📖 “Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” – Psalm 30:5
Strength in Sorrow
📖 “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” – Psalm 46:1 📖 “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7
Encouragement to Trust in God
📖 “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.” – Isaiah 41:10 📖 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28
Grief is a journey, but God walks with you through it. May these scriptures bring you comfort and remind you that you are never alone.
