How I as a Kingdom Mother Balance Strength & Grace
Embracing Resilience While Leaning Into Divine Rest
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How I as a Kingdom Mother Balance Strength & Grace: Embracing Resilience While Leaning into Divine Rest
Yesterday was the first day of summer break. The kids were excited because they had no homeschooling work to do. But chores and other things still had to be taken care of.
They were starting off well and then they forgot what they were supposed to do. Normally, this comes with debating, fussing and even some whining from the little one but we handled things completely different this time.
I changed my tactic. I reminded them of the little grasshopper that played and played while the ants worked during the summer to prepare for the winter. I let them know that if you work now, you have more time to play later. You have a full summer vacation only when work needs to be done.
We put on some Gracie’s Corner songs and then we all got to work as the house needed cleaning. Not only did I remain patient with their resistance, but I also taught them a lesson again. I did have consequences, and I did check up on them.
Motherhood is a journey of deep love, tireless devotion, and unwavering resilience. As Kingdom Mothers, we are called to embody both strength and grace—leading our families with faith while surrendering to God’s perfect rest. But how do we balance these two seemingly opposing forces? How do we walk in holy strength while allowing ourselves the grace to rest in God’s hands?
The Power of Resilience
Resilience is at the heart of Kingdom Motherhood. We carry burdens, pour into our children, and stand firm in faith through life’s uncertainties. Scripture reminds us of this strength:
"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come." — Proverbs 31:25
It is this resilience that enables us to rise each morning, guide our children in righteousness, and press forward when exhaustion weighs heavy. But strength alone is not enough—we must also embrace grace.
The Grace to Rest
Too often, mothers feel the weight of doing it all. But the Lord never intended for us to carry every burden alone. He invites us to lean into divine rest:
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." — Matthew 11:28
Resting in Him does not mean forsaking responsibility; it means trusting that we don’t have to operate in our own power. As Kingdom Mothers, we release the pressure to be perfect and instead embrace the grace to step back, breathe, and allow God’s presence to restore us.
Walking the Balance
To truly balance strength and grace, we must:
Prioritize prayer—anchoring ourselves in God’s wisdom daily.
Establish boundaries—knowing when to say no and protect our peace.
Trust God’s timing—realizing we don’t have to control every outcome.
Seek support—allowing ourselves to lean on our families, church, and Kingdom community.
When we embrace resilience while resting in divine grace, we step into the fullness of Kingdom Motherhood. We lead with unwavering faith and surrender with holy confidence.
Motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about walking in the presence of the One who strengthens and restores us. May we continue to embrace this beautiful balance, leading our homes with courage while resting in His unfailing love.
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This year, we’re taking it a step further with a fundraiser that directly supports mothers in need. Whether they’re single moms juggling work and parenting, caregivers putting their families first, or women overcoming life’s toughest challenges, we want to make a difference. And here’s the best part: there are rewards for those who contribute!
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In 2010, I faced one of the darkest moments of my life. After years of infertility, we lost our child—a blessing we had prayed for. The grief was overwhelming, and I felt like I had no way forward. But through God’s strength, I broke fear and found hope again. Breaking Fear is the story of resilience, faith, and healing, and I want to share it with those who help us give back to my mother in this season.
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Resources for Moms
Kingdom mothers can find strength and grace through a variety of resources designed to support their faith, family, and personal well-being. Here are some valuable tools to help navigate the balance:
Faith-Based Resources
Prayer & Devotionals: Books like Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe offer structured prayers to cover every aspect of a child's life.
Christian Podcasts: Listening to faith-filled discussions can provide encouragement. Esther Press offers a list of inspiring Christian podcasts for women.
Bible Studies & Scripture Guides: Deepening your understanding of biblical motherhood through studies on women like Deborah, Hannah, and Sarah.
Time Management & Practical Support
Time Mastery for Kingdom Moms: A guide on balancing work, family, and faith while managing time effectively.
Task Batching & Simplification: Strategies like grouping similar tasks together and simplifying to-do lists can help reduce stress.
Morning Routines for Peace: Prioritizing prayer and quiet time in the morning can set a strong foundation for the day.
Community & Encouragement
Kingdom Motherhood Blogs: Platforms like Iconic Marriages share personal experiences and lessons on balancing strength and grace.
Support Groups & Church Ministries: Connecting with other Kingdom mothers through local church groups or online communities can provide encouragement and accountability.
Celebrating Strength in Motherhood: Articles highlighting the resilience and leadership of mothers can be uplifting.
Balancing strength and grace are a journey, but with faith, wisdom, and the right resources, Kingdom mothers can thrive in their calling.
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