How to Know If He or She is the One: 25 of the Top Comments I Received from my Icons
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We are going to finish this week out strong with 25 TOP Comments from YOU on how to know if your potential is the one for you.
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How to Know If He or She is the One: 25 of the Top Comments I Received from my Icons
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Top Comment #1: A Sure Thing
We can never be sure, but we can be certain. Many of us have experiences, past relationship failures, and a worldview that is pretty set in stone. So, when the right one comes along, we just click. And we know they are right one for us as we seal the deal.
Top Comment #2: Not A Sure Thing
Many do not know how to label what they felt for their significant other, but it was a strong feeling early on and quite quickly to be with them. Something pulls on the soul, a tug, or maybe you can’t stop thinking of them. Either way it seems that he was right, and they are going on strong!
Top Comment #3: Answer to a prayer
Many times, we just go before God and ask Him to supply our needs. And if we are lucky, God blesses us to our heart’s desires. He does say “Seek Ye First” and maybe this is a call for more of us to go to Him with our wishes, desires and dreams. And we are are often better for it.
Top Comment #4: All Jokes aside
We kid but sometimes we are surprised that our other is still hanging around. They really meant this for forever. And that is amazing, being able to fight and still help each other is a trick seasoned couples know. Because we know that at the end of the day, we are still going to be around.
Top Comment #5: A familiar feeling
The reason my husband and I work so well is because of our friendship. We just fit together like to odd puzzle pieces that just work. That forever feeling is the comfortability that you have with them. Also, the ease of talking to someone is just refreshing in a world with so much else going on. Happy Anniversary!
Top Comment #6: Feelings creep in
You are so at peace with this person you ignore that you are falling for them. Because they fit like that, and they stay on your mind. When you hear their name and only picture them, you know they are meant to be with you for a long time.
Top Comment #7: Perfectly Natural
When you are talking to someone that goes on so long you lose yourself and time, that is a peace that is rare. When you have struggled in other relationships but this one comes so at ease like neither is trying hard, that is something relaxing that only those who been there can understand. Marriage does not have to be that hard.
Top Comment #8: Lots of fun
Life is complicated. Having another that can take the seriousness out of it sometimes and make you smile/laugh when it is least expect helps. They can remind us that we can enjoy life and it does not have to be a drag.
Proverbs 17:22 emphasizes the upside of a smile: “A cheerful heart is good medicine . . .” Love and Laughter in Marriage - Just Between Us
Top Comment #9: More ambitious/Similar passions
This reminds me when I saw the “Legend of Zelda Link to the Past” video game at my husband’s apartment when we were dating. It is like similar interests just stand out and sometimes are surprising. Of course, we have major differences but all the little things we share stand out a lot.
Top Comment #10: Best friends
It amazed me to find out that not every couple considers their spouse their best friend. I do not know how else to describe what we share other than that. Sometimes people are lonely and only need sex. That is not a marriage. You need someone who will do the things you don’t like to help better you too, tell you when you are wrong, say no to you and help you improve. A friend will do that.
Top Comment #11: Enjoying Life
Some people have unique energy you can’t help but be around or gravitate too. It something special about them that when you soak it all in, you want more. You become enamored with them that you can’t see yourself with anyone else. Hold on to that one.
Top Comment #12: Character and Integrity
Anything seems acceptable these days. Finding a man that has strong character or a woman that has integrity is rare. And it is special because you know they will do what they say they will and stick by you even when you two are all alone.
Top Comment #13: You fit Right in
You are not a build a bear. Finding a love that does not change you, but you are good enough as is, puts you at east, releases your stresses and relaxes the soul. I will take it. No one is perfect, but there is someone perfect for us.
Top Comment #14: Gentleness.
The way a person can touch your physically like no one else can is going to be important on this journey. Many times, words may not help, grief or moodiness might cloud our minds and judgment. Having a spouse that knows how to reach us deep within is a keeper.
Top Comment #15: Everything goes with the flow
When the stars are aligned and everything goes smoothly, you just know it is meant to be. And you do what you can to make it official. An “innocent” kiss, because it just had to happened sealed the deal for this Icon and they are on their way to 3 decades of kisses and more.
Top Comment #16: Friendship before it got serious
Friendship has been a returning theme. Many people do not know how important it is to show someone that you can be a good friend before you can be something more. You know after they do all the things good friends can do, like make you laugh, that giving something deeper a try, just might make everything better.
Top Comment #17: IYKYK
Humans have our gut feelings and just like we can tell when someone is up to know well, we can tell when someone is right for us. That gut instinct may not always work but it did for Sam, and she is much better for it. Her gut was right on the money.
Top Comment #18: Just by looking
Our eyes can be the windows to the soul. Some people might find this cliche’ but if they were able to use their eyes and make it last this long, more power to them. Some of us have doubts and mess up a sure thing. Try some of the other tips to see if they all line up.
Top Comment #19: Pretty Smile
Sometimes we love the way our favorite person does things. For this Icon, it was a smile. For you, it might be something else. Whatever it is, make sure that you can tie it with other things that last for the long-haul.
Top Comment #20: Be different
Standing out from others in a good way is a sign that this person is special. They may be super nice, tell it like it is or have a personality you’ve never seen before. Don’t let your preconceived notions stop you from finding a suitable, they may be perfect for you.
Top Comment #21: Letting go
Being unafraid around them can be a great sing that you love them. They are the ones you are unabashedly wanting to have fun with, please and to make love to for a long time. Doing the things that make you scared in front of them means you value them higher than others. Now be fearless and try love.
Top Comment #22: In that moment
I will drop Fantasia right here to explain this one:
Top Comment #23: How they treat you
Good manners, well-spoken, or more can be signs that they care about you. The way someone treats you is an early indicator of who they are and how they are.
Top Comment #24: Daydreaming
If you can’t get them off of your mind, it might be a sign that you love them or want them around more often. Dreams are windows into the heart and mind. But they need you to act to become reality.
Top Comment #25: Believing in you
Nothing feels better than a person in your corner that believes in you. I have said before in another article that we have these Iconic marriages to build with someone. To have that level of trust in you that you do, matches in step. A man needs a wife that sees him wholly and his vision completely. That is how Iconic marriages are made.
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