I am Embracing Gratitude: Empowering Marriages & Families During the Season of Thanksgiving
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Embracing Gratitude: Empowering Marriages & Families During the Season of Thanksgiving
If you go back to my podcast ending 2023 and leading into 2024, I was hopeful for this year. And I wanted to express that hope to all of you. I had two eBooks planned, a new homeschooling year for the kids and much more work I wanted to accomplish here at Iconic.
Then in June I got sick.
How could I try to go to the gym to better my health and instead have a health crisis? This pushed my books, my donation plans, and my medical healthy into an unforeseen direction. Forget the election, I could have died. I have children to homeschool, I am a wife. How could all this happen in a year I planned our so strategically?
I went to the ER twice, I got sick from antibiotics, and other things. I felt sad, depressed and just confused while the medical community was upsetting me. I was tired and in pain. Enough felt like enough.
In spite of it all, victory was ensured. My family and I won.
Am I healed? No.
Are all of my 2024 frustrations fixed? Nope.
I have new perspective!
2 Corinthians 4:18 NIV “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”
I was getting drowned by everything going on, I lost sight of the truth; that this too shall pass.
When my dad got sick and almost died, I knew something had to change in my mindset. It wasn’t that life was being weird and hard again, it is that I was taking in all the bad. I, despite it all, have much to be grateful for. I owe God and my family lots of thanks.
This is the season of Thanksgiving. Let me start acting like it.
As the crisp autumn air sets in and the leaves transform into a brilliant tapestry of reds, yellows, and oranges, we find ourselves in the season of Thanksgiving. This time of year, is traditionally associated with giving thanks for the blessings in our lives, and it's also an opportune moment to reflect on our relationships, especially our marriages.
Empowering Marriages with Gratitude
Gratitude has the power to transform relationships and empower couples to build stronger, more resilient bonds. Here’s how the season of Thanksgiving can be used to strengthen marriages:
Express Appreciation: Take time to express gratitude for your partner. Acknowledge the little things they do daily and celebrate their strengths. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank you for making dinner or a note of appreciation for their support, these small acts of recognition can make a big difference.
Reflect Together: Use this season to reflect together on the journey you’ve shared. Discuss your favorite memories, the challenges you’ve overcome, and the dreams you have for the future. This can help deepen your connection and remind you of the strong foundation you’ve built.
Acts of Kindness: Perform acts of kindness for your partner. Whether it’s a simple gesture like making their morning coffee or planning a special date night, these acts show your love and appreciation in tangible ways.
Showing Gratitude in Difficult Times
Life isn’t always smooth sailing, and it’s often during the tough times that gratitude can have the most profound impact. Here’s how to show gratitude even when facing difficulties:
Focus on Positives: Even during challenging times, there are always things to be thankful for. Focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and the support you provide each other.
Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness can help you stay grounded and appreciate the present moment. Take a few minutes each day to reflect on what you’re grateful for, no matter how small.
Lean on Each Other: Difficult times can strengthen your bond if you face them together. Lean on each other for support, and express gratitude for having a partner to share life’s ups and downs.
Dealing with Difficult People
Interacting with difficult people can strain even the strongest relationships, but gratitude can help maintain harmony and peace:
Empathy and Understanding: Try to see things from the other person’s perspective. Practicing empathy can help you understand their actions and respond with kindness.
Set Boundaries: While it’s important to be kind, setting boundaries is equally crucial. Express gratitude for the lessons learned and the personal growth that comes from navigating challenging relationships.
Focus on Solutions: Rather than dwelling on the negatives, focus on finding solutions and ways to improve the situation. Gratitude can shift your mindset from frustration to a more positive outlook.
Gratitude During Personal Struggles
Personal issues can sometimes overshadow our ability to feel thankful, but practicing gratitude can provide solace and strength:
Self-Compassion: Show yourself the same kindness and understanding that you would offer a loved one. Acknowledge your efforts and progress and be grateful for your resilience.
Gratitude Journaling: Keep a gratitude journal to record what you’re thankful for each day. This practice can shift your focus from what’s going wrong to what’s going right.
Celebrate Small Wins: Celebrate your small victories and achievements, no matter how minor they may seem. Recognizing these moments can boost your morale and motivation.
The Power of Gratitude
Gratitude is a powerful tool that can transform our perspective and enhance our relationships. It helps us focus on the positive aspects of our lives and appreciate the love and support we receive from our partners. It helped me refocus my energies on helping those in need, being there for loved ones and being a better version of myself. By incorporating gratitude into our daily lives, especially during the season of Thanksgiving, we can empower our marriages and build a foundation of love, resilience, and joy.
This Thanksgiving let’s take a moment to appreciate the blessings in our lives, even amid challenges. Let’s express our gratitude for our partners and the journey we share. Together, we can create stronger, more fulfilling relationships that stand the test of time.
Wishing you all a joyous and grateful Thanksgiving season with our 10-days ‘til thanksgiving eSeries!
Celebrating Thanksgiving with a Special Giveaway: 100 Hardback Copies of Iconic Formula for Marriage Success
As we enter the season of Thanksgiving, a time dedicated to gratitude and giving back, we are thrilled to announce a special initiative that embodies these very principles. We are giving away 100 hardback copies of our 6th book, Iconic Formula for Marriage Success, at our local library! This heartfelt gesture is more than just a giveaway—it’s a fundraiser aimed at supporting marriages and creating a national movement for stronger, more resilient families.
Why This Fundraiser Matters
In today’s fast-paced world, maintaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage can be challenging. Iconic Formula for Marriage Success offers practical advice, inspirational stories, and actionable steps to help couples navigate these challenges and build a lasting bond. By providing free copies of this valuable resource, we aim to empower couples in our community to strengthen their relationships and create a foundation of love and understanding.
It also helps me receive much needed training from the Conscious Conservative Movement Leadership to expand our business and do more work, build our infrastructure with our new podcast season approaching, more books to write, hiring staff and becoming official in Georgia. This means we can open up ourselves to 1 on 1 coaching, workshops, public events online and offline, and much more.
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The Importance of Giving Back
Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our blessings and extend a helping hand to those in need. This fundraiser is an opportunity to give back to our community by supporting marriages and families. Strong marriages are the cornerstone of a strong American community, and by investing in them, we invest in a brighter future for all.
About the Book
The Iconic Formula for Marriage Success” book written by Nicole Pinkston aka Mrs. Pinky will follow these ideas of our eCourse and empower you and your spouse with 12 foundational principles to help you map a 25-year success plan for your marriage.
Chapters lessons include:
How to Cultivate the Mindset for a Successful Marriage
How to Develop the Mental Fortitude to Combat Marriage Challenges
How to Develop Your Marriage’s Vision and Mission Plan
How to Practice Self-Love So You Know How Best to Love Your Spouse
How to Develop a Financial Plan for Your Social Empire’s Success
How to Develop Effective Communication Strategies Based on Your Spouse’s Preferred Methods and more!
This is our blueprint. And I mean our, because this is a collective effort from us to build up our local families, then our communities and our nation.
We are the answer to today's marriage woes.
How Your Donations Help
Your generous donations are crucial to the success of this initiative. Here’s how you can make a difference:
Support Marriages: Your contribution helps us provide free copies of Iconic Formula for Marriage Success to couples who can benefit from its guidance.
Build Community: By fostering strong marriages, we strengthen our community as a whole. Healthy relationships lead to happier, more connected communities.
Create a Movement: We aim to inspire a national movement with Iconic Marriages, spreading the message of love, resilience, and hope across the country.
Join the Movement
We invite you to be a part of this exciting journey. Here’s how you can get involved:
Donate: Every dollar counts. Your donation directly supports our mission to provide valuable resources to couples in need.
Spread the Word: Share this initiative with your friends, family, and social networks. The more people who know about it, the greater the impact we can make.
Participate: Visit your local library to get a copy of Iconic Formula for Marriage Success. Engage with the content and apply the lessons to your own marriage.
A Message of Hope
In a world where challenges can often feel overwhelming, it’s essential to hold onto hope and resilience. At Iconic Marriages, we believe in the power of love and the strength of family. There are countless ways to navigate society’s pressures and uncertainties, even when times seem tough. Never let fear rule your family or marriage. Instead, embrace the wisdom and support available to you.
To learn more about overcoming fear and achieving success in your personal and family life, we encourage you to check out our book, Breaking Fear. Together, we can break free from fear and build a future filled with love, hope, and strength.
Thank you for your support and generosity. Let’s make this Thanksgiving a season of giving and a time of empowering marriages and families.
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Donation Tiers and Rewards
To show our appreciation for your generosity, we have a variety of donation tiers with exciting rewards when you click the link above or upgrade your subscription:
$10: Receive a digital copy of "Mrs. Pinky's Thoughts" eBook.
$25: Get our brand-new eBook “The Iconic Formula for Marriage Success”.
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Your support means the world to us and to the couples and families who will benefit from these resources. Together, we can make a lasting impact and empower families to build stronger, healthier relationships.
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The Importance of Gratitude for Families This Time of Year
As we approach the season of Thanksgiving, the spirit of gratitude takes on special significance. For families, this time of year is an opportunity to reflect on the blessings we have and to express our thankfulness for each other. Here’s why gratitude is so important for families during this season and why it’s essential to remember to be thankful.
1. Strengthening Family Bonds
Gratitude fosters a sense of closeness and connection among family members. By expressing appreciation for one another, we reinforce the love and support that holds our families together.
Biblical Verse: "Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever." - Psalm 107:1
Inspiring Quote: "Family is not an important thing. It's everything." - Michael J. Fox
2. Promoting Emotional Well-Being
Practicing gratitude can significantly improve emotional well-being. It helps shift our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering a positive outlook and reducing feelings of stress and anxiety.
Biblical Verse: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." - Philippians 4:6
Inspiring Quote: "Gratitude turns what we have into enough." - Anonymous
3. Teaching Valuable Lessons to Children
Thanksgiving provides a perfect opportunity to teach children the value of gratitude. By modeling thankfulness and encouraging children to express their own gratitude, we help them develop a positive and appreciative mindset.
Biblical Verse: "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." - Proverbs 22:6
Inspiring Quote: "Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings." - William Arthur Ward
4. Fostering Resilience in Difficult Times
Gratitude is particularly powerful during challenging times. It can help families find strength and hope, even when facing difficulties. By focusing on the positives, we build resilience and a sense of hope.
Biblical Verse: "Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." - 1 Thessalonians 5:18
Inspiring Quote: "Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul." - Henry Ward Beecher
5. Enhancing Relationships
Expressing gratitude can enhance relationships by fostering mutual respect and appreciation. It encourages open communication and a supportive environment, strengthening the bonds between family members.
Biblical Verse: "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." - 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Inspiring Quote: "Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all others." - Marcus Tullius Cicero
Why Remembering to Be Thankful Is Essential
Remembering to be thankful helps us appreciate the present moment and the people around us. It shifts our focus from what we lack to the abundance of blessings we have, creating a mindset of contentment and joy. Gratitude also encourages us to recognize and cherish the efforts and love of our family members, fostering a harmonious and loving environment.
Things happen. Leaves fall of trees, family members can die, or painful events can come out of nowhere and wreck even our understanding of life. We can’t always
As we gather with our families this Thanksgiving, let’s take a moment to reflect on the blessings in our lives and express our gratitude for each other. Whether through a heartfelt thank you, a shared meal, or a family tradition, let’s make gratitude a cornerstone of our holiday celebrations.
Biblical Verse: "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." - Colossians 3:17
Inspiring Quote: "Gratitude is the memory of the heart." - Jean Baptiste Massieu
May this season of Thanksgiving bring you and your family closer together, filled with love, joy, and gratitude.
Tell us what you are grateful for.
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