Introducing: 40 Days of Mrs. Pinky Thoughts – A Legacy of Faith, Fire & Forward Motion
“They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of His splendor.” – Isaiah 61:3b (NIV)
Good Sunday morning, Icons,
We are starting our new monthly eSeries to bless you. July is my birthday month, and I turn 40. It is filled with reflection, gratitude, and peace as I think about what my life has been like and what God has for me in the future.
But I am not alone.
I invite for you on this journey with me as we work to Build something Iconic to revitalize, restore, and reignite the institution of marriage by empowering you to build a thriving social empire that last.
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Now, let’s dive into today’s lesson:
Introducing: 40 Days of Mrs. Pinky Thoughts – A Legacy of Faith, Fire & Forward Motion
My birthday reflection and celebration with you.
“They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of His splendor.” – Isaiah 61:3b (NIV)
For the next 40 days, I’m inviting you into the kitchen of my soul, a sacred space where grief has stirred legacy, faith has kindled fire, and obedience has pushed me forward. Mrs. Pinky Thoughts aren’t just reflections—they’re recipes for resilience, confessionals of covenant, and declarations that healing still has a seat at the table.
This isn’t just a blog series. It’s a movement. One rooted in purpose, legacy, and provision—for my family, for your home, and for the generations we may never meet but still have the power to bless.
Each post will pair reflection with action. And every gift given during these 40 days—whether $25 or $125: pours directly into finishing Book 8, Mrs. Pinky Cooks, and caring for my mother with dignity and grace. This is the table we’re building together.
Welcome
🍽️ Mrs. Pinky Cooks – Feeding Legacy with Every Page
This isn’t just a cookbook. It’s a vook-book experience—where story, soul food, and sound wisdom come together to nourish more than just the belly.
With Mrs. Pinky Cooks, you’re stepping into generations of faith, flavor, and fierce family love. But this month, your support goes far beyond the kitchen. We’re raising $5,000 in July to bless lives and build Kingdom impact:
🔥 Help us…
Bring Book 8 to life and preserve legacy on every page
Support my mother—now a widow—with dignity and care
Launch faith-based marriage coaching programs
Provide emergency aid to Georgia families facing extreme heat and hurricanes
Build our Iconic Matchmaking Services to reconnect purpose partners
Expand our eGuide collection to equip couples and families nationwide
Sow into a story that’s feeding families, building marriages, and honoring legacy.
🎁 Give. Share. Cook something eternal. 📘 Mrs. Pinky Cooks—because healing starts at home.
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Our Mrs. Pinky Thoughts Newsletter Schedule
Here is my newsletter schedule so you know what we are going over for the upcoming new eSeries. Thank you for continuing to be here with us as we do God’s work for you in life, love, marriage and family. Do you want something specific? Consider sending us a DM so we can talk about it.
WEEK 1: Voice & Vulnerability
I’m Still Here: Resilience Isn't Always Loud
When God Is Quiet But I'm Not Crazy
Grief Isn’t Backsliding—It’s Sacred Ground
I Survived What Didn’t Serve Me
My Yes Isn’t for Sale Anymore
The Day I Let the Platform Die to Save My Peace
Faith Isn’t Feeling—It’s War Strategy
🔹 WEEK 2: Marriage, Ministry & Messy Obedience
Why I Still Believe in Covenant Love
He Leads Like the Father: The Kind of Man I Pray For
I am 40 and Finally Free
What Marriage Taught Me About God
Mrs. Pinky Ain’t a Brand, She’s a Calling
When God Says “Build It Anyway”
How I Found Ministry in My Own Home
🔹 WEEK 3: Identity, Legacy & the Hard Truths
Dear Younger Me: You Don’t Need to Shrink to Survive
I Used to Be Political—Now I’m Prophetic
Legacy Looks Like Obedience, Not Algorithms
The Ones Who Left Were Never Covering Me to Begin With
Why I Stopped Watering Down the Word for Likes
Calling Isn’t Clout: How to Stay Rooted in a Loud World
When Your Yes Costs You Everything—And It’s Still Worth It
🔹 WEEK 4: Womanhood, Worth & the Waiting Season
Kingdom Womanhood Isn’t a Hashtag—It’s Oil
Purity After Pain: God Can Still Use Me
My Womb Is Prophetic (Even If It’s Empty Right Now)
Healing the Little Girl Who Didn’t Feel Heard
Daughter, You’re Still Chosen
I’m Not Too Much—They Were Just Underprepared
The Wilderness Didn’t Kill Me: It Built Me
🔹 WEEK 5: Power, Provision & Prophetic Vision
God Didn’t Forget: He’s Just Setting the Stage
My Gifts May Be Silent But They're Still Anointed
Provision in the Pause
You Can’t Cancel What God Called
The Father Speaks Through Doors, Detours & Denials
I’m Not Chasing Platforms: I’m Hosting Presence
My Prayers Hold Generational Weight
🔹 WEEK 6: Fire, Freedom & Forward Motion
I Refuse to Dim for Rooms That Don’t Discern Me
Forgiveness Doesn’t Mean Re-Entry
God Gave Me the Blueprint—Even If They Don’t Clap
I’m Not Politically Homeless—I’m Kingdom Rooted
Let’s Build Something Iconic
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What’s in the guide? If he doesn’t pay all the bills, he’s not a real man…” That’s what culture says. But Kingdom love was never built on cash flow—it was built on covenant.
We’re pulling back the curtain in my newest post: Provision, Power & Partnership: Rethinking the 50/50 Myth in Marriage 🔥 This ain’t your average couple’s debate—it’s a call to rebuild with clarity, purpose, and mutual mission.
👊🏽 Let’s talk: → When provision becomes control
→ Why 50/50 leaves couples emotionally bankrupt
→ How to build a real financial partnership rooted in Kingdom wisdom
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With gratitude, Nicole Pinkston Iconic Marriages Founder | Mrs. Pinky Thoughts podcasts host