Kingdom Marriages: A New Series to Strengthen Your Union
Emphasizing Matthew 6:33 and Fostering Love in Your Marriage
Good afternoon, Icons,
We are back with a new series for you entitled “Kingdom Marriages” and hope that this will bless you in your union.
We thank all of you who have supported the Pulley family during this time of mourning and ask that you continue to keep us in prayer.
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It is with celebrations and love, that I continue the work of Iconic Marriages in the memory of my father Clarence Pulley Jr, Brother Ronnie Pulley and Aunt Mary Harvin, who all went on to be with the Lord. It is not a time of great sadness because we know where they are as we all miss them deeply. We thank God for the time we had with each one of them, sharing love, our lives, and the memories we hold dear and, we do the will of God so we can see them all again one day.
I ask you Icons, that you, pray my strength in the Lord.
Kingdom Marriages: A New Series to Strengthen Your Union
When my mother stood up on February 19, 2025, to honor and lay to rest, my father, Minister Clarence Pulley Jr., the church fell silent at his memorial. His widow, Minister Nancy Pulley, my dear mother, rose to honor the love of her life, her soulmate, the father of her children and grandfather to her grandchildren and her best friend. As she began to speak, the love my parents had for each other overwhelmed me and struck a chord deep within.
This was my life’s work staring back at me, an Iconic Marriage for all to see.
My mother, standing in her minister attire, talked about how she loved my dad for 45 years, their first date and the ups and downs. But what stuck with me the most is their profound love of God for so long that they instill in all of us 6 children, our spouses, our kids and our family.
The Lord Jesus and the kingdom of God is the legacy of their love.
I could not be more honored.
Emphasizing Matthew 6:33 and Fostering Love in Your Marriage
I am thrilled to introduce our new series, Kingdom Marriages, designed to help couples build a strong, enduring bond rooted in the principles of God's kingdom. This series draws inspiration from Matthew 6:33, which reminds us to "seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." By aligning our marriages with God's kingdom, we can create a foundation of love, trust, and faith that will stand the test of time and get us to where God wants us to be.
What Does It Mean to Seek the Kingdom of God?
Seeking the kingdom of God involves prioritizing God's will and righteousness in every aspect of our lives. It means striving to live according to His teachings, fostering a deep relationship with Him, and embodying His love and grace in our interactions with others, especially our spouses focusing on the Kingdom firstly above all else. In this we recognize “all these things shall be added” if we do the will of God as we have been instructed.
What is a Kingdom Marriage exactly?
A kingdom marriage is “a covenantal union between a man and a woman who commit themselves to function in unison under divine authority in order to replicate God’s image and expand His rule in the world through both their individual and joint callings.” Bible.com
Simply put, a Kingdom Marriage focuses on the Kingdom of God through using our Godly union as an example of Jesus and his bride here on Earth. As kingdom citizens and ambassadors, kingdom married couples are kingdom citizens by doing the will of God and living righteously.
We will explain more as the series continues. So, stick around with us!
10 Laws and Principles for Kingdom Marriages
Christ-Centered Love: Prioritize your relationship with Jesus and let His love guide your marriage.
Mutual Respect: Honor and value each other's opinions, feelings, and desires.
Commitment: Stay dedicated to your spouse through all of life's challenges and triumphs.
Forgiveness: Practice forgiveness, understanding that we all make mistakes and need grace. 70x7 like the Lord Christ Jesus requires of us to be forgiven.
Communication: Maintain open, honest, and loving communication.
Trust: Build and maintain trust by being reliable and faithful.
Service: Serve each other selflessly, following Christ's example. Serve others as Christ demonstrated
Intimacy: Foster physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy as one.
Stewardship: Manage your resources, time, and talents wisely to glorify God, remaining humble and remembering that God will provide.
Prayer: Pray together regularly, seeking God's guidance and blessings for your marriage and children.
10 Duties and Responsibilities of Couples Seeking the Kingdom
Study the Bible: Read and meditate on God's Word together.
Attend Church: Participate in worship and fellowship with other believers. Remember that you are the church, and your citizenship is int he kingdom.
Volunteer: Serve your community and church through acts of kindness and service.
Support Each Other: Be each other's biggest encouragers and confidants.
Set Goals: Establish and pursue spiritual, personal, and financial goals together.
Cultivate Patience: Practice patience and understanding in your interactions.
Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate each other's achievements and special occasions.
Resolve Conflicts: Address disagreements with love, humility, and a desire for resolution.
Learn Together: Continuously seek knowledge and wisdom to grow as individuals and as a couple.
Show Gratitude: Express thankfulness for each other and for God's blessings.
The Importance of Citizens in the Kingdom
As citizens of God's kingdom, we are called to reflect His character and live according to His principles. This includes loving and serving our spouses, as well as being a light to those around us. To be a citizen in the kingdom, one must:
Accept Jesus as Savior: Believe in Jesus Christ and accept Him as your Lord and Savior.
Repent: Turn away from sin and strive to live a righteous life.
Be Baptized: Participate in the sacrament of baptism as a public declaration of faith and be baptized in the spirit receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost as our council in the kingdom.
Follow Jesus: Commit to living according to His teachings and example, doing what He called us to do individually and as a couple.
References
Dr. Myles Munroe's Teachings: Dr. Munroe's insights on the kingdom of God and relationships provide a valuable foundation for our series.
YouVersion: Kingdom Marriage concept is a 5-Day Plan inside the Bible App
Scripture References:
Matthew 6:33 - "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you."
Ephesians 5:25 - "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her."
Colossians 3:18-19 - "Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them."
We will pull from a lot of resources to encourage and teach you. There are many who have already taught this message and we will bring their insights forward. Stick around to be blessed.
We hope you find our Kingdom Marriages series both inspiring and practical as you work to create a strong, loving, and God-centered union. Stay tuned for more insights, tips, and encouragement in the coming weeks!
What do you wish for out of this series? Let us know what your thoughts and questions are by clicking the comments.
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