Leading Vs Controlling: What A Man Leading In A Relationship Looks Like - RLS
Day 8 of our Iconic Men's Empowerment Series
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Leading Vs Controlling: What A Man Leading In A Relationship Looks Like - RLS
Knowledge is power.
Iconic is resources for you on the “how” of developing healthy and happy relationships. Knowing what words mean and understanding of context helps us live successful lives. It is a power that protects, keeps and emboldens us.
Success isn’t just about money and fame. It is understanding our God-given vision for our lives and what that means in relationships. Sometimes, either from lack of examples or unclear expectations, our wires get crossed, and we don’t understand what we are supposed to do. We don’t understand how knowing what words mean actually help us communicate clearly our goals in life, love, marriage and family.
That happens a lot in the area of leadership. Many don’t know what leadership means or what it looks like in practice. That is how orgs lose people to bad leaders. It is how you kill a company and do not understand why.
When I went to leadership training in the military, I thought it was going to be a lot about the cadence calling, yelling and being in front of the room. But we often discovered that leadership was way more than that. It was not about being front and center but being the brains behind an operation.
Leaders were the strategist to make sure things got done. Leaders did the work with their team, encouraging, teaching, training and motivating others to follow them from their experience and knowledge not just the number of stripes they had on their uniform.
In marriage, many people misunderstand leadership. They think that it is authoritarian or comes naturally. They don’t think it takes being a follower first, a student of life learning from parents, grandparents, mentors and more on how leadership is done.
Questions to consider:
How can you lead a family if you had no examples or do not know how your parents made it happen?
What does leadership mean between men and women?
What does it mean to be called to lead?
These points and more are discussed in the video ahead.
Thank you to Relationship Restored for the powerful lesson. This is their 32nd episode.
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