[Repost] 10 Truths about Men and Their Marriage Benefits
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The 10 Truths about Men and Their Marriage Benefits
The modern lie is that men do not need a wife.
In fact, God the Father saw Adam alone and it was considered not good. His solution was a woman named Eve. And being God, He knew in His wisdom what Eve was going to do and still gave her to Adam.
Proverbs 18: 22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing,
And obtains favor from the Lord.
In fact, data shows that marriage benefits men tremendously regardless about the court system, child support, and more.
The most egregious lie is that men have no marital benefits.
That is just a flat out lie.
If you don’t want to get married, don’t. Singleness is a gift, too. Many people live vast and fulfilling lives without marrying someone. Don’t get married because of societal, cultural or family pressures. That’s bad.
Make your decisions.
Don’t put that on someone else’s adult child if you really are disinterest in marriage. Be honest with yourself if building a family and a legacy with them truly is worth the work. It is a waste of time to jump in if your hearts not there.
Fortunately, there are many benefits for men to get married and I will list them all, so we aren’t here for long.
Men live longer when married. (source)
Men have better finances.
Their children do better in a 2-parent household
Men have better mental health.
Men recover faster from surgery.
Men are happier with less drug and alcohol use.
Men are do better in marriage than living alone.
Men have higher levels of marital satisfaction than women.
Men have a stronger support network.
Men get to demonstrate leadership qualities. (Source)
The notion that men do not need women or that marriage is detrimental to men is not supported by research; it is more likely to be speculation from individuals with failed relationships, dissatisfaction with legal disputes, and a lack of pre-planned strategies for divorce.
Interesting fact though, men who go through those horrible past problems still benefit from remarrying and second/subsequent marriages if they give it another go. (Source).
The notion that men don't need women, yet persistently express opinions on what women should do, despite not needing them, appears to be quite contradictory. Men continually benefit when they choose marriage, and they have healthy ones.
You can find the right woman for you.
Now, we know modern marriage narratives are not all bad, that women can make mistakes and that not all bad relationships fail because of men.
Yet, this is about hope. You can have the marriage of your dreams and win.
Marriage, when done correctly with the right person for you, men can and do benefit greatly
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My husband and I boiled down our relationship to a single ideology that has kept us together for 12 years through a lot of unforeseen circumstances that we have pushed through; we never gave up.
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Many organizations, media outlets and political figure heads will talk all day about the need for wholesome families, intact homes and marriage.
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Summary
Relationships are beneficial deals for men, even today.
Fun fact: It is supposed to be. You are choosing the one family member you get to choose so you aren’t supposed to take it lightly.
Does modern culture have issues? Yes.
That does not mean we can’t talk about those problems in an uplifting and empowering way that doesn’t strip someone of their inherent humanity based on their gender.
Women are not responsible for the people that hurt you. It is your responsibility to get healing from your hurt and then not let that baggage ruin any future relationships.
Today, we have too much fear about marriage from stats, popular influences and the like but the truth is, you can still make it work when you use our online and offline resources available to you.
And remember in all that you do, do it in truth and be Iconic.
References for further Reading
Is It True That Single Women and Married Men Do Best? | Psychology Today
Associations between relationship status and mental well-being in different life phases from young to middle adulthood - ScienceDirect
15 Amazing Benefits of Marriage for a Man
Benefits Of Marriage: Do Men Benefit More From Marriage Than Women? (themindsjournal.com)
The Benefits of Marriage.....for Men! - Rupert G. Hargrave - Google Livres
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