Strong Dad June: 4 Marriage Hacks from Dads
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Good Wednesday, Icons,
I hope that today is a good day for you and yours.
We pray that you are continuing to reach your own goals in life, love, marriage and family.
Happy #StrongDadJune to all of you wonderful fathers out there.
We are going talk about marriage advice we can grab from fathers to make our relationships the best they can be.
I know I talk to my father often and he has given a lot of knowledge to not only me but to my husband as well.
And there is just some fatherly advice that exists out there that all married couples can benefit from.
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Strong Dad June: 4 Marriage Hacks From Dads
At the start of June, I gave you guys lessons from my father.
Today we are diving into some marriage advice from other fathers around the world and what they tell their children as they embark on this new level of life, making their own family.
A strong dad not only prepares their kids for who they are going to be who they will create too.
And as always, we shout out the dads that are creating a legacy and building lasting social empires that transverse multiple generations.
Hint 1: Move Forward Not Backwards
We tend to think about the past a lot, especially if we have regrets. Some have suggested that this is a waste of time.
Take the lessons you’ve learned and then let it go. You cannot make up for lost time, but you can impede progress is you stay stuck.
Good fathers motivate us to push ourselves to bigger and better things. So to egg us on to move on from the mistakes we made, change and evolving from the lessons we’ve learned forces us to grow into who we are destined to be.
Dads also add this advice to marriage because it can bring in resentment if we stay stuck on old arguments and hurts instead of being solutions oriented and fixing what needs to be fixed.
Figure out the problem, get to a solution and move on. Dads are tough, but they are right.
Hint 2: Don’t dwell on small things
Many men have a saying “It is what it is”. That means an acceptance of the things you cannot change and then changing the thing you can, yourself.
Dwelling on little things when you have bigger priorities like a spouse and family eats up the time you could be doing more important things.
Men tend to be solutions guided and so they don’t seem like they have feelings which is beyond not true.
Luke 12:34
“For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”
Instead, strong dads don’t waste time on the trivial, the prioritize. That way they can focus and build in the direction that needs them the most.
When you know your Vision for your family and marriage, you can pay attention to the needs of those around you, making sure you meet them and they will in return.
That impacts the inside of your marriage because you pick your battles dealing with the things that are most pertinent firstly and then whatever else comes next.
It is about being a good steward of your union in a positive way.
Don’t dwell on the small things, they will be what they are and you have better things to be doing.
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As you know I am close to my father, so much so he his birthday is 4 days after mine in July.
All the men in my family are good dads and I know a host of just really good men that are doing the work to raise contributing members of society and to have Iconic families.
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Hint 3: Be a team.
One father suggested that couples need to start being a team from the beginning.
Interdependence and social empire building takes the input of both spouses. Yes, the man’s Vision guides the ship of the relationship, and the wife co-pilots the plan, but as a team, decisions are finalized.
This is key when raising kids too. As Strong Dads, sometimes it might be difficult to tell your kid no and you don’t want to put that weight on just mom to do. Instead, you discuss things and you present a united front in front of the kids.
If something is an issue you two discuss it together away from the kids.
Kids see the unity that mom and dad present and they know the parents both mean business. And the kids don’t get a sense that it is okay to be disrespectful from one parent or the other.
Hint 4: Make Time for the Ones You Love
Many things will pull your attention in numerous directions. You have to make sure you know how to manage your time with your loved ones in mind. A great job means nothing if you become disconnected from your family.
When my husband came home from work yesterday, the kids were outside. He went out in the backyard and played with them.
They will remember those times he spent with them making memories over the things he buys, the things he allows them to do or even the money he spend on our house.
When you are a father, a worker and a provider those things eat up your time. But when you work with your wife to do date nights, plan vacations, sit and watch favorite shows, you show them that they are valuable enough to make room for in life.
We can become so busy with our phones and the other distractions of the world; we forget who and what matters most.
Don’t lose your family and legacy because you can’t manage time. Time waits for no one, make good use of it.
Summary
Strong dads offer great advice that can lead to marriages that last.
Parents don’t stop advising children just because they’ve reached a certain age.
We can pull tips from these wise men to better our society if we heed their advice and warnings.
Strong dads equal stronger families which are the backbone of a strong nation.
Honor your father or fathers you know while you can.
And remember, a solid dad is Iconic.
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