The Role of Fathers/Husbands
Week 4: Finale, Encouragement
A lot is going on in the world right now.
And as I was just finishing up my workout and thinking of tonight’s conclusion post, I was sad.
Not just at the death of Tyre Nichols but the rest of the state of the country and world.
It is a lot to take in.
What does that mean for the end of the 4th week and our topic for fathers and husbands?
Be the change you wish to see.
We often talk and wonder about all the thing that happen in our society. The frustrations of the unfairness we see, the constant injustices, the toxicity and the children we have to rear in all of this mess.
We become defeated at heart break and divorce.
We get tired of the uphill battle to fight the status quo just to feed our kids through a struggling economy.
There are demands on our physical fitness, making sure we stay right with God and doing right by our fellow man.
It is a lot.
Husbands and Fathers, we need you in your positions at the helm right now.
Families are hurting.
Communities in disarray.
World’s collapsing.
Folks are losing their lives, suddenly.
We are spiritually, mentally, psychologically and financially under pressure all the time.
How do we make it in our marriages, in our families and in our homes?
We step up. We stand up. We be the leadership.
We have so many reasons of what was wrong with traditionalism and the harsh problems of the past.
We also have 50 years of data that proves some changes made things worse and not better.
Take what you know to be true and use that to find the love of your life to build.
She is out there.
Don’t let the evil trickers, schemers and naysayers ruin the beautifulness of all that a successful marriage has to offer.
You don’t feel like looking? Okay.
Work on yourself. Become the father you had or did not have and needed.
Be the masculinity YOU say is missing so the femineity you desire shows up.
Remember, you need to pick one. So dating is the process of finding her.
That support that she brings to you is worth the work.
It is worth finding.
Marriage is not just something that affects you, it become your Vision manifested.
It then turns into your daily missions and goals.
You don’t need to put it off or put off kids to accomplish what you desire.
They can be the motivation to do what needs to be done.
I am the woman I am today because of the man my father is every day for me. He believes in me more than I did on somedays.
He pushed me to join the Army and he always shows me love.
He is my backbone to brave the things that scared me, and he told me to go after what I wanted through education and more.
Your wisdom, your guidance and your leadership can save a household, community and nation.
That takes the fortitude to not give up in this crazy world we live in.
You are the answer to what ails us.
And remember, when you show up, that is Iconic.
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