What Happens When A Father Finally Heals
We're $475 Away from Restoring Fathers. Here's Why that Matters | Honoring Minister Clarence Pulley Jr for his Heavenly Birthday Weekend
Good afternoon, Icons,
We have to pause our 40 days of Mrs. Pinky Thoughts to Focus on something closer to my heart and mind right now.
My father’s birthday is this Sunday—and this year, I’m doing more than sending love. I’m building a legacy. The Kingdom Fatherhood Initiative is our newest curriculum at Iconic Marriages, designed to raise strong men, mentor future fathers, and restore identity through faith.
Let’s Dive In:
What Happens When A Father Finally Heals
My dad didn’t get a roadmap for fatherhood. Most men don’t. So, they improvise. Or they isolate. Or they walk away. Or they do the best they can. My grandfather died earlier than anyone expected so my dad navigated his role the best he could.
He was afraid of leaving us early and worked tirelessly to provide what he could for us.
I’m writing this as a daughter, a mother, and a believer—because we’re building the curriculum that changes all of that for future fathers that can use my dad’s example, and the example of other great fathers to building better for generations to come.
My father showed up for with everything he had. And this month, on what would be his birthday July 13th, we aren’t just honor who he was and what we did. We are honoring what he left behind, the truth that good fathers made a great impact. We are honoring every man who chose love over silence, presence over perfection, and resilience over regret.
When a father heals, a family heals. And when a community invests in that healing shifts a generation.
A Purpose-Driven Fundraiser
Let’s Talk About the Power of Fatherhood
Children with involved dads are 75% less likely to experience teen pregnancy, incarceration, or drug abuse
Strong father figures are linked to higher academic performance and better emotional regulation
Restored fathers reduce cycles of abandonment, trauma, and poverty
🧡 So What Makes Our Curriculum Different?
Unlike mainstream parenting guides, the Kingdom Fatherhood Curriculum was built with biblical restoration at the core. It’s not just about behavior; it’s about healing identity, breaking generational patterns, and equipping men with spiritual, emotional, and practical tools they never received.
🛠️ It’s trauma-informed, faith-driven, and legacy-anchored.
And we’re $475 away from finishing it.
💵 What Every Dollar Will Do:
💲 Amount & Impact:
$40 Sponsors: one father with access to the full curriculum and ongoing support
$75 Covers editing, voice note production, or visual resource development
$100+ Allows: print, record, and distribute the curriculum for a bid at gov’t contracts in partnership with local, state, federal gov’t.
Every $1 stretches beyond paper: it funds clarity, compassion, and healing.
🏛️ Why We Can’t Wait on the Government
While there are public programs that mention fatherhood, they often lack spiritual depth, trauma sensitivity, and continuity.
The federal government invests heavily in workforce and incarceration reentry, but rarely in holistic fatherhood
Local grants may fund workshops but don’t offer long-term support, discipleship, or biblical identity work
That’s where nonprofits like Iconic Marriages come in. We don’t just fill gaps in joint partnerships; we offer blueprints. We hand men tools for transformation, not just tips for parenting.
This isn't about one man. It's about every good dad we’ve known, and every hurting father who still has time to rewrite his legacy.
You can be part of that rewrite.
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Thank you for helping us turn memory into movement—and pain into purpose.
We need $475 to finish the Kingdom Fatherhood Initiative Curriculum. This is more than pages. It’s healing. Every gift helps us build tools that restore men to their families, legacies, and faith.
Want to sponsor one father’s journey? $40 does that. Want to be part of the whole vision? Any amount moves us forward.
My dad’s birthday passed in February. This curriculum is part of how I honor him. Thank you for helping me turn memory into movement—and pain into purpose
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While we working to become a non-profit for tax exemptions, we give awards away from of digital and print library of books. You get something for investing in everything we do. We thank all our givers from last month. We raised $685 of our $10K goal. But I think we can do more. Let’s build something, Iconic.
10: Breaking Fear eBook
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$40: The Mrs. Pinky Thoughts Reset Bundle
$50: Iconic Formula for Marriage Success eBook
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How You Can Also Help
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Sponsor a dad or a full scholarship ($500)
Pray for this launch and those it’s meant to reach
I’m not just honoring my dad, I am inviting you to help fathers become wat they were always meant to be: leaders, protectors, and legacy-builders.
Let’s launch this together. Let’s restore fatherhood-Kingdom Style.
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Iconic Builders aren’t just donors; they’re strategic partners in healing. Your monthly gift fuels counseling tools, prayer guides, eCourse, and resource bundles for families in transition. Whether it’s $25 or $150, your seed helps rebuild homes from the inside out.
✨ Sponsor Tiers, Monthly Seed Offering and Impact:
🌱 Foundation Builder $25/month Sponsors one family’s access to an eGuide + prayer coaching resource each month and get you in our Iconic Newsletter
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