Restoring the America Family: The Kingdom Solution to a Culture of Declining Birthrates and Marriage
Continuing our Kingdom Motherhood Series with Important Information to bless you and yours as we continue our Iconic Work
Revival Begins in You with Coach Felicia Killings with Guest Nicole Pinkston
Good morning, Icons,
I, Nicole Pinkston, also known as "Mrs_Pinky," am gearing up for an exciting upcoming appearance on Revival Begins in You on Substack, where I'll dive into an insightful conversation about Black marriages.
With her signature passion and wisdom, Nicole will explore the importance of love, resilience, and faith in sustaining strong relationships, while also discussing how Black couples can navigate challenges and build lasting legacies. This highly anticipated episode promises to be filled with valuable takeaways, heartfelt reflections, and empowering dialogue—definitely one to watch for!
Subscribe to Revival Begins In You Podcast | Coach Felecia Killings Omnimedia, Inc. | Substack to listen the show on Sunday 5/25/2025 at 3:30 pm EST.
Now into today’s discussion:
Restoring the Family: The Kingdom Solution to a Culture of Declining Birthrates and Marriage
Kingdom Motherhood is a ministry from the God of the Bible. Yet, there are external factors making it more difficult for us mothers to build Kingdom families, marriages and children and it was intentional plot. We must overcome it.
My mother has been the matriarch of our family for 45 years doing everything within her and my dad’s power to train us up in the way we should go. From kids living in the inner-city conditions of poor schools, dangerous neighborhoods, and more, the unity my parents had helped us survive. It wasn’t any government handouts, public resources or even gov’t policies that helped my parents, it was the Lord and their commitment to each other.
It was following my father’s instruction to take us to church, pray, and have faith that held my parents’ marriage together, kept us kids safe, and had us on the pathway to success we all enjoy today.
Today, it is my hope that this marriage work not only protects my household but empowers yours.
We do not need to wait on external forces to improve our families if we listen to the Kingdom Message to put God first.
For decades, discussions around population control have sparked controversy, with figures like Paul Ehrlich warning of overpopulation and advocating for drastic measures to curb growth through gov’t policies and social advocacy that changed the importance of marriage and family. While his theories have been widely debated, what cannot be ignored is the cultural shift that has followed—declining birthrates, disinterest in marriage, and a growing detachment from family values.
But here’s the truth: the family unit is the foundation of a thriving society, and Kingdom marriage solutions are the key to restoring it.
The Manifestation of a Cultural Shift
Today, we see the effects of this ideology in real time. Marriage rates have plummeted, birthrates are at historic lows, and the traditional family structure is often dismissed as outdated. Many young adults are opting out of marriage altogether, prioritizing careers, independence, and personal fulfillment over building a family. While autonomy is valuable, the erosion of marriage and family has led to increased loneliness, instability, and a lack of generational legacy.
Yet, there is hope.
The Kingdom Marriage Message: A Solution Rooted in Divine Principles
At Iconic Marriages, we don’t just talk about marriage—we equip couples with the tools to build strong, lasting unions through Kingdom Laws and principles. Our work is not just another relationship program; it is a movement designed to restore the family structure through education, mentorship, and faith-based guidance.
Through newsletters, books, eCourses, coaching, and more, we provide real solutions that empower Kingdom moms and dads to lead their families with wisdom and purpose. We believe that marriage is not just a contract—it is a covenant designed by God to reflect His love and establish generational blessings.
Encouraging Signs in the Black Community
Encouragingly, Black marriages now outweigh single-mother-led households, marking a significant shift in family dynamics. This is a testament to the resilience of the community and the growing recognition of the importance of marriage. Additionally, abortion rates and divorce rates are declining, though there is still work to be done to strengthen families further.
Why Iconic Marriages is the #1 Kingdom Movement For Marriages and Families
What sets Iconic apart is our national impact and unwavering commitment to Kingdom laws and biblical principles. We don’t just offer advice—we transform lives through biblical truth, practical strategies, and a supportive community. Our work is not just about marriage—it’s about legacy, stability, and generational blessings.
We teach men and women to take stock in the Kingdom message that Jesus Christ preached and have faith in it to provide all our needs. While the Bible has become our blueprint, we at Iconic Marriages make it all plain that families can restore their unions, build up their children and create legacies following us.
As we continue to push forward, we invite you to be part of this movement. Whether through our coaching programs, educational resources, or community initiatives, Iconic is here to equip and empower families to thrive.
Additional Reading
For those eager to dive deeper into this vital conversation, our past Iconic newsletters have extensively explored the decline of marriage rates, cultural shifts affecting family structures, and how Kingdom marriage stands as the ultimate solution. From thought-provoking analyses to practical strategies, these newsletters provide a rich foundation for strengthening relationships and restoring the family. You can revisit these impactful editions by checking out our archive below. Stay equipped with Kingdom wisdom as we continue to champion strong, purpose-driven Iconic marriages!
#StrongMomMay: Honoring Mothers & Giving Back
May is a month of warmth, growth, and celebration—and what better way to honor the incredible strength of mothers than with #StrongMomMay? This special initiative is more than just a hashtag; it’s a movement that recognizes the unwavering resilience, love, and dedication of moms everywhere.
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In 2010, I faced one of the darkest moments of my life. After years of infertility, we lost our child—a blessing we had prayed for. The grief was overwhelming, and I felt like I had no way forward. But through God’s strength, I broke fear and found hope again. Breaking Fear is the story of resilience, faith, and healing, and I want to share it with those who help us give back to my mother in this season.
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Iconic Marriage is the #1 Hub For Marriage Empowerment and Family Success
In a time when relationships are often challenged by shifting cultural values and modern distractions, Our Iconic Marriage work stands as a cutting-edge, faith-based solution rooted in Kingdom laws and biblical principles. We blend timeless biblical wisdom with practical, modern-day strategies to equip couples with the tools they need to build strong, lasting marriages.
Our vision is to revitalize, restore, and reignite the institution of marriage by empowering men and women to build thriving social empires. How do we achieve this vision? Through eCourses, coaching, newsletters, books, and national initiatives, we empower individuals with the knowledge and confidence to navigate marriage successfully in today's world. Iconic isn't just another marriage org—it’s a movement designed for real impact and transformation, ensuring that Kingdom families not only survive but thrive for generations to come.
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